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Review: Wham Bam Paddle by Tantus

June 8, 2016

The Wham Bam Paddle by Tantus looked like it could produce some interesting sensations. I am more than familiar with Tantus’ other paddles and have loved to use them for various sensations from a soft caress to a stinging slap. The size and shape of the Wham Bam paddle is very different then ones I have so let’s put this paddle to the test.
This product was provided to me by Tantus for free, for an unbiased review. 
The Size Matters: 
Diameter: 2" 
Length: 15”
The Pro Side: 
100% Silicone
Package is recyclable
Dishwasher Safe
Can be Boiled
Body Safe
Easy to clean
Easy to hold for both Large and small hands
The Con Side:
Absolutely Nothing!



My Personal Experience: As I have said before and will say again. I love the silky feel of the Tantus silicone paddle line. It is remarkably soft to the touch so from a perspective of sensual play this is such a seductive treasure on a submissives skin. The Tantus paddles are remarkably easy to hold in both the left and right hand.


The stand alone design of the Wham Bam paddle is the sheer length of the slapping surface. Not only is it slender but long. The one thing I have to say about the length is that it may take a bit of a practice round to adjust your aim. Much like wielding a crop you have to adjust your stance and distance to prefect your aim. After all, your goal is to have fun and not break your toys (subs)!


I found that the Wham Bam Paddle was perfect for all my subs from the sensual to the pain loving boys. The slender strike point means I was able to get the sensitive bits and bobs that boys try to protect. It was a nice touch on the inner thighs and the head of the penis. The Wham Bam Paddle is great for a light tap, sending shudders though a submissive body. Tap much harder and the sting is instant and intense. Add a little water and that brings it to a new height of pain.

A submissive Experience: My boys really do enjoy doing all the naughty things I come up with but I have to say when I walk in a room and announce, “I have a new toy…” eyes light up. The Wham Bam Paddle met with the same look when they find out at the end of our time what the new toy is. You see I never tell them what the new toy is. That way I can draw on their experience. 


Now the boys that are more sensual. I love their reactions the most. They get goose bumps and shudders when the Wham Bam Paddle was drawn across their skin. it’s the texture of the silicone that is great for sensual sensation play. Combining it with fur in the other hand or a Wartenberg Wheel. I ce is always nice or a leather glove. The key with sensual plays is to provide contrast and gentle taps with the tips of the paddle. My sensual boys give this paddle a thumbs up.


The boys that thrill over the harsh strike of a paddle love the Wham Bam too. Was I ever able to make them squirm. If you strike near the tip of the paddle you can achieve quite the sting and as you move towards the handle, striking with the base of the paddle the impact is very thud based. So the key to the sensation with the heavy bottom is the use of all areas of the Wham Bam paddle.  If you don’t vary your sensations the bottom can quickly tune out the pain or pleasure you are providing them. So my heavy players also give the Wham Bam paddle a thumbs up. 
Miss Aayden's Final Note:  Tantus always brings an outstanding quality and the Wham Bam lives up to the standards set for all their products. Quality and packaging is always important to me, I completely dislike non tasteful packaging ( one displaying nudity or porn stars). Tantus puts their quality not only into your product but into how it is presented and shipped.


The seams and presentation of the Wham Bam paddle is to the highest quality. It cleans and disinfects well. In personal play ( more sexual ), I love a little shower play time and the Wham Bam is a great shower toy, get sting with little effort or swing. Take the word of several boys and me, Miss Aayden and get yourself a quality toy, pick up the Wham Bam. You will be glad you did.




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