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Review: Flex by Tantus

May 25, 2015

The Flex Vibrator from Tantus piqued my interest as I am always looking for dual penetrations for ladies that don’t involve two separate toys. That being said I enjoy the act of dual penetration. So this was a personal choice before stable ( clients) choice.  The size was a little shocking at first but I think that was because I have small hands. I was pleasantly surprised.


This product was provided to me by Tantus for free, for an unbiased review. 


The Size Matters: 


Shaft Diameter: 1.5” / 3.8 cm

Shaft Length: 5.25” / 13.3 cm

Bead Diameter: 0.75” / 1.9 cm

Bead Length: 4.25” / 10.8 cm


The Pro Side: 

100% Silicone

Package is recyclable

Dishwasher Safe

Can be Boiled

Body Safe

Easy to clean


Dual Penetration

The beads are not intimidating for beginners

Harness compatible

Removable vibrator 

Comes with a bullet vibrator

Bullet Vibrator stays in place

Suction Cup Compatible 


The Con Side:

The beads are placed a bit too high up the shaft

The bullet vibrator is hard to remove once in place

The vibrator pokes the wearer in some harnesses




My Personal Experience: The Flex Vibrator by Tantus is one of those toys that I was giddy about. I am by nature a kinky girl and love my toys. I was in rapture with the fact that one toy could be used for dual penetration. The girth was impressive but not overwhelming. I absolutely  love that this toy comes with a removable vibrator and its quite large for a bullet.


On its own Tantus’ bullet vibrator packs a punch as far as bullets go. I really like that this one is large enough to make it substantial. You don’t feel like your fumbling when holding it. it’s a great toy all on its own. When placed in the Flex Vibrator the bullet goes in nice and sits firmly in place. A very nice feature. However, it was the hardest thing I have ever had to remove when I was done and cleaning the toy. I wouldn’t change the design, as I really like that it’s a no worry when your playing but it is worth noting that it was a first class B*%&CH to remove.


The insertion of the Flex Vibrator was extremely weird in personal play. I felt like I was playing  human twister the first 5 or so play times. If you are considering the purchase of this toy, don’t give up with how silly you feel. It becomes an easy thing with practice. Now its like any other toy, no pretzel for me. So keep trying the reward is pure pleasure. The soft silicone has an amazing feeling on the skin and the firmness of this product is just right.


As a dildo without the beads in place this toy rocks. Its easy to use on your own because of the base. Getting the beads and the phallus in their respective places was a challenge but, once inserted was an incredible feeling. The fact that could control the motions with one toy was amazing. Being able to then turn on the bullet and feel vibrations throughout the Flex Vibrator was a nice surprise too, Yes I could feel the vibrations in the beads as well. A very well designed toy for that reason. 


The one draw back was that the beads were at an odd angle on the shaft for me, perhaps a bit too high. I am thinking this is a personal thing as there were no complaints of that nature from my submissives.


When using this toy on a sub I have to say that the base made this toy easy to hold and thrust with in my female subs. Always a plus in my books.


The Flex Vibrator  was nice to use in a harness as well. I have two harnesses. One is a series of belts and straps that leave the wearer  touching the dildo in the harness against their body. Perfect for toys like the Feeldoe, where you just want that extra measure to keep it in place. I also have Black Widow Connoisseur Harness ( look for that review soon) from Tantus. The strap type harness worked well with the Flex Vibrator as long as the bullet wasn’t inserted. That was quite the pokey conundrum on me. It was very uncomfortable.


However, wearing the Black Widow Connoisseur Harness there is leather between the dildo and the wearer so using the Flex Vibrator with this harness was much better. Though you can still notice the poke, it was  10x better.



A submissive Experience: Using the Flex Vibrator on my submissive girls was so much fun. One toy to do the work of two. Much love to Tantus for coming out with this design. The girls that are not anal players were comfortable enough to try the beads and found they quite enjoyed them. Well beyond expectations.


They were very pleased with the girth of the phallus as well. It had them squirming with real delight. I hardly had to work the girls did it all for me. They seem to marvel at the sensations of the bullet vibe as well. Weather used with the toy or not. 


Miss Aayden's Final Note: The Flex Vibrator certainly had its ups and downs. Puns intended! I recommend this toy for its value and construction.  It has great value in my professional toy box but not so much in my personal one.  Tantus is on point with the quality, construction and packaging with this toy, it just didn’t hit home for me personally.


My girls loved it and I am really looking forward to adding the Tantus Suction Cup to my collection as I am sure there is amusement in using it with this toy. 


The removal of the bullet was the biggest draw back in the Flex Vibrator the second being that the use of the vibe is not so functional with a harness. 


As a dildo this is a great toy and works well. I would recommend this toy to anyone that wants to experiment with dual penetration. The Flex Vibrator  is definitely a toy geared for the females out there. So don’t be shy, this one is really worth it and the vibe doesn’t need to be used in the toy. Tantus bullet vibe is great as a clitoral stimulator as you have the toy inserted.


You will find that Tantus is a quality company, with service that goes the distance and products that meet a high quality. Its time products like this become mainstream.




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